I was born in a town - Parsons, WV - that in its entire history never had more than a population of 2,000 people at any given time. In recent years, with the economy as it's been as well as some major changes to the area brought about by a devastating flood in November 1985, that population is less as people make an exodus for points elsewhere to find good jobs and attend good colleges. The town I graduated high school in - Terra Alta, WV - is smaller still. However, there is a charm and drawing with these places that many of us from there cannot resist, and although some of us were restless to leave and explore the wider world in our youth, our hometowns still exert a magnetism over us that draws us back to them, and that is something that is a blessing rather than a curse. West Virginians even have a term for that, as we call it a "sense of place." "Place" means something to Appalachian people, and it is something that I can't quite describe in writing - you just have to be one of us to understand it I guess. I feel it when I visit certain places back home, and to be honest our part of the state has some very nice areas. The way the roads are constructed, the stair-step houses on the sides of the hills that often it takes a flight of 20 steps to get up to, and the delapidated old barns and other landmarks give the place an atmosphere. Even the roadsigns have significance to me personally - in West Virginia, there are these green county road signs that designate a certain rural route, and something about those signs is just familiar and somewhat comforting. Some of the people I grew up or went to school with would probably not notice that until it was pointed out, but the look of "oh yeah, I see what you mean..." tells you they understand where you are coming from with that.
This is a newer version of one of the "guide signs" I am talking about, although in another county in WV.
And, this is the classic sign like the ones that were around when I was growing up - this one is from Pendleton County.
It is just hard to imagine for some - and hard to explain for me - why something as mundane and insignificant as a road sign would have such a meaning to it, but they do for some reason. As a kid, I would have taken that for granted, as many others back home may have, but now it signifies something to me personally. But, it isn't just road signs, but other things too.
The "place" you grow up in is part of your identity, and it says a lot about who you are too. But, there is more to it than that. You see, I grew up a significant part of my childhood poor - my parents divorced when I was quite young, and my mother raised me, although we spent a lot of time at relatives too. Living with my maternal grandmother and step-grandfather just south of Augusta, WV, for many a year was a particular learning experience for me. My grandparents were what you would call real mountain people - their house didn't have running water, bathrooms, or any type of air conditioning or central heating. If you wanted a bath, you heated up the water on a wood stove in their house and bathed in a large metal tub. If you had to go to the bathroom, you used either an outhouse in good weather or a contraption my step-grandfather rigged with an old kitchen chair, a toilet seat, and a 50-gallon lard bucket in inclement weather. To heat the house in the winter (and also to cook) there was a wood stove in the living room, and although my folks had electricity, things were still pretty primitive. Also, we grew, hunted, and foraged for a lot of the stuff we ate - although there is a mandatory hunting season there, often out of necessity my step-grandfather would shoot deer even in the summer months, and we also ate a lot of groundhogs, snapping turtles, and other creatures too. Another rustic culinary delight I loved gathering but was not thrilled about eating was poke greens. These were the young tops of the pokeweed plant that were harvested in the summer months and cooked fresh like spinach as a vegetable. The adult plants were poisonous, and had long stalks of black berries that were also highly toxic. And, of course, there were a wide variety of berries available throughout the year - tiny wild strawberries in June, huckleberries and serviceberries in July, mountain rasberries and blackberries in late July, elderberries in September, and wild grapes (those were bitter and nasty to eat though!) in late September. Naturally too, there were in late March the ramps to harvest as well. Although this stuff was not exactly gourmet fare, with a little creativity you could survive well on it. We were also a gardening people too, and in the summer months there were always abundant supplies of tomatoes, squash, cukes, and other vegetables, sometimes so much that people gave them away to friends and neighbors. It was not uncommon, for instance, to step out on your porch some morning and see a big bag of zucchinis or tomatoes sitting at your door. People got creative with garden produce too - we fried a lot of stuff, but with zucchini it seemed like anything could be done; people baked with it even (one girl I went to grade school with even has a recipe for zucchini brownies! Imagine that). Besides food though, there were also other ways we "made do." Many times, clothing was handmade, and contraptions abounded as innovative mountain folks came up with things that would make a nuclear physicist envious. Although rough at times for me growing up - it didn't help that my mother also drank a lot too - I learned much from the experience, and as a result it made me work my butt off to assure I got a college education, good work, etc.
A young pokeweed plant, about the right size for harvesting.
Sometimes a little adversity can be a good thing, as I found out the hard way growing up, and it tends to build character in people. Too many kids today are so spoiled and disrespectful that it is frightening, and if only they had to "rough it" like I had to do when I was their age, they might build the character many of them so sorely lack. Just a casual observation...
Well, I hope you enjoyed this article, and will hopefully return soon to share some more of my life with you.
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